So many times our
culture focuses mostly on Eros for fulfillment
and the fulfilling of our needs…and that is
where we first approach the doorway to the Gray
It's enticing and
desirable…it draws us in like a moth to a light;
an unlivable place that looks so inviting and
alive. In the end we only end up getting
Before we know
it, we’ve been burned so many times we don’t
know any other way. We keep going back to this
place hoping at last it will work out this time.
We don’t realize that the longer we stay, the
more it is slowly killing us.
It’s so hard for
us to see that there is a wealth of amazing love
and beauty to be found when we protect our goods
for just one and no one else;
It is amazing
what happens when two people show each other
that nobody else can have their goods but
them…they are the only one with the security
clearance, the access code.
The trust that
flows from that is natural and real; there’s no
more insecurity about keeping him interested.
Instead it is the opposite; love in its purest
form lives on no matter what.
That kind of love
endures not only through good times when the
feeling is there, but it stays lit even through
the storms of life; in dark times it is there to
help the other person find their way back home.
It glows strong and shines light on us even when
we feel lost in our own dark place.